Social exclusion is a distressing human experience; however, individual differences in the preference for solitude (PS) may shape how social pain is processed. This study examined neural responses to social exclusion among solitude-preferring individuals, focusing on the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC) and anterior insula (aINS), regions consistently implicated in social pain.

Forty healthy participants completed functional MRI scanning during the Cyberball task in which they experienced exclusion. Subsequently, participants reported their task-related distress. They were also assessed for mental health and PS, and stratified into low and high PS groups.

Compared to individuals with low PS, those with high PS reported significantly higher depressive symptoms and loneliness scores. Neuroimaging revealed significant deactivation of the left aINS among participants with high PS during exclusion. Functional connectivity analyses further showed enhanced coupling between the left aINS and the bilateral secondary somatosensory cortices. Notably, among participants with high PS, ACC activity was positively associated with perceived distress during exclusion.

Our findings suggest that solitude-preferring individuals suppress the emotional appraisal of exclusion, as reflected by attenuated insular responses, while maintaining heightened internal sensitivity through the ACC. Strengthened coupling between the insula and somatosensory cortices suggests a shift toward sensory–discriminative processing, representing an adaptive yet costly regulation strategy that reduces overt affective responses but preserves the internal experience of social pain. This neural pattern may not reflect resilience but rather a reduced emotional valuation of social stimuli, possibly linked to elevated anxiety and depressive tendencies commonly associated with solitude preference.